Hey, Cora here. Look I decided to write this as a bulletin and not a blog because then MAYBE a few more people will read it. What the HELL is up with this website... myspace.com/own_your_friends.

OWN YOUR FRIENDS???

Basically it's where trashy girls go to find out how hot guys think they are. They look at pics of them and then tell them how much money they think someone would or should pay them for whatever.

Essentially that is all it is.

FUCK THAT!!!!!

Why do we need yet ANOTHER way to take down our self esteem, compare ourselves to the next bitch, and find another way to turn women-sisters!- against eachother all for WHAT? So some stupid asshole we don't even know can "rate" us higher than someone else.

IT"S PATHETIC.

Society is just totally fucked. Women, get your heads out of your asses and realize that you are WORTH MORE THAN WHAT GUYS WILL EVER SEE WITH THEIR EYES.

I am not saying that there is not a guy that will ever see your good qualities. But how will he ever see them if even YOU don't know what they are because you're too busy obsessing over the image in the fucking mirror!!!!!?????

And I can also ASSURE you, with all my wisdom and knowledge, that the guy who will actually *feel*-not see- your good qualities (once you figure them out) is NOT going to be found on some retarded, gayass OWN YOUR OWN FRIENDS SITE!!!!!!!!!!!

Why would anyone even waste their time with that?????

Have you ever sat down and asked yourself "Who am I?" Not "who does everyone *think* I am?" Not "what do I *want* people to see me as?" but WHO THE HELL AM I REALLY????? What are your hopes, your fears, your inner secrets? Who is the person attached to "dat ass" ???? What are the *thoughts* behind that ridiculously perfectly made up face and overly styled hair??????

If there even *are* any thoughts going on in there...

Women, listen, this message is not directed to all of you. I have some good friends on here who I like and who I know aren't like this. But I have a lot of people on my friends list. And I promise you that many of them fit this description.

If you feel like you do, then I am not trying to insult you. I am trying to make you mad because it's the only way to get your attention. It is the only way to make you think about these things. No one ELSE is going to fucking speak up so I guess with great power comes great responsibility and it has to be me.

Ladies, it's time for a change. Who gives a shit what some guy says he would pay for you? He doesn't know YOU!!! You are a human being. A real, valid, beautiful daughter of the goddess and it's time you started recognizing that!!

If we let guys' feelings about us dominate how we feel about ourselves, then we will NEVER know our true selves. We will NEVER be able to tap into our intuitions, interpret our dreams, see our futures, believe in ourselvses, properly raise our children, or even be HAPPY for that matter!!!!! And on all of this I give you my WORD. If ANYONE has questions or wants me to explain ANY part of this feel FREE to message me and I would be HAPPY to go into every single branch of the destruction that could be caused to our spirits, bodies, and minds.

Do yourself a favor. Start asking yourself questions. Lots of questions, about EVERYTHING. Here I'll even help get you started: Question why you get up in the morning, why you wear what you wear - is it *your* style or do you just wear it to be "hot" and "cool"? Why do you like the music you "like"? Do you really even LIKE it? Do you know how music that you "like" is supposed to make you FEEL? Why do you go to church? Is it because your parents do? Why do they? Why do they make YOU? Why do 90% of women on tv look the same? Why do women sit back and take abuse and harrassment? Why do YOU?

Listen i am going to tell you all something really cool. Back in the sixties, there was this thing called The Women's Liberation Movement. Or Women's Lib. Ask your moms, if they're cool. My mom is not. She basically says it was a bunch of angry dikes running around bashing men... oh but wait now she can vote so maybe it wasn't a total loss...

No, it wasn't a bunch of angry dikes running around bashing men.

It was a FIGHT for freedom from the oppression of our souls! It was the right not ONLY to vote, but to take back our place in society as human beings, not trophies!

Now, we are as bad off as before, except that we can vote. (Woop de fuckin doo we can go register our name in the system so they can come take our money if we don't pay taxes - because I'll tell you a secret, your vote DOESN"T count. The superdelegates vote for who THEY want to vote for, regardless of the state majority. Look it up) Oh and they pretended to give women "equal opportunity in the workplace" too, but that was a joke. It is a proven fact that it is LEGAL for women to earn up to 30% less than men do while working the same job with the same level of experience. Oh and by the way, I have seen this first hand. I had a job doing corporate taxes for a CPA and there were many occasions that were *recorded on the payroll* where the woman in the same position as the man was getting paid barely over a third of what the man was getting paid.(Oh and don't even get me started about it being LEGAL to pay a woman even LESS if she isn't pretty!!!) And by the way here is another little fun fact for you. Senator McCain said VERY recently that it was ok that women don't get paid as much as men. Because quote "they just need more education and training than men do" Look. It. Up.

Anyway... Our souls are enslaved again. We are OBSESSED with image and male opinion. We have to always be the hottest and sexiest. We have no idea who we are. I could go into the whole "conspiracy theory" that Patriarchy is doing this to us INTENTIONALLY, but I won't here. (maybe I will in a blog) But again, if anyone WOULD like to argue this with me, I would be MORE than happy to do so.

Ladies, forget this bullshit of being what guys want you to be. Be who YOU want to be! (Notice that you are WHAT guys want and you are WHO you want... most guys just see you as a "what", a thing, a property, a trophy, a conquest) And if you don't know, EXPLORE!! Watch foreign movies, read books, research influential women online and think about them and find out what made them different! Here I'll even give you a few! (wow I'm in a generous mood today) Frida Kahlo, Mya Angelou, Sappho, Monica Sjoo, Starhawk, Ani DiFranco, Naomi Wolf, Tori Amos, Mary Cassatt, Dr. Christiane Northrup, HP Phyllis Currott. There right off the top of my head. All you have to do is type their name in yahoo or google. I promise they are all spelled correctly.

Sisters, this isn't hard. We think it is, but I promise you it isn't. Learn who you are! Be yourself! Don't go another day content to be just "hot".

PLEASE DO IT FOR YOUR KIDS AND THEIR KIDS!!!!! You will not be hot forever and what then? You will be 50 and have no clue who you are or what you are about!

Do it for the rest of us.

And remember, if you want to talk to me about it, you know where to find me.

peace

Cora)O(

Oh Lilith fair
With your eyes of golden amber honey hazel
And your hair is raven silk
And your lips are sugar plum rose petal
You have the sweetest countenance
But your power is a force to be reckoned with
Your darkness is the purest kind
The kind where the moon seduces the night
Speak to me Lilith
Most beautiful Fate
I shall be your priestess now
And always